We are all connected..
Sometimes people mistake a connection for a bond so what's the difference?
When we connect we may feel an attraction or pull toward another person. I am often told when I read for someone that they feel a strong and powerful connection to the person whom they are asking me about in one way or another.
Whilst we can experience very powerful connections with people, not just on a romantic level, in my experience a true bond with another is a different expereince. When we are bonded to someone it often feels like they are the only person who truly knows us or accepts us for who we really are. When we bond and then we are not with that person it is not just a feeling of missing them it is more a yearning to be with them or have contact from them.
The void that they leave behind if there is distance between the person we bond to can leave us feeling totally empty or indeed at times almost feeling lost and very very low . Relationships with people we bond to can be enriching, full of growth, harmony and evolve us to different states of being, but with this they can at times be stormy and full of turmoil and disagreements. Arguments and stubbornness with people we are bonded to are very often worse as they know how to hurt us with words or actions some of which leave us empty and full of emotional pain. So why would someone who cares about and loves us cause us so much heartache?
These are questions I am often asked and the first thing I look for in any relationship reading is to see if the person genuinely does care and to what degree. Is it just a connection or is this person bonded to you and why are they acting the way they are toward you?
Clarity in any relationship is key as knowing why someone is acting the way they are and can help us on the correct path and enlighten us to the way forward. Every path is different for us all and knowing if the person we are asking about is bonded to us ~ a twin flame ~ which is for me what a true bond between people is . A person who knows and understands us at a deep soul level.
So is the person you are with or have been with the person you are bonded to and bonded with? These questions I can help answer for you. Think of how many times we have all said the words" I feel connected or feel a connection with this person"
Why not find out which is your path and to whom it leads. You may be very surprised or you may just need clarity or conformation and as such I am here for you when you need me.
In Loving Memory...
It is with great sadness this month that I learned that a great friend of mine passed away to the other side so we say goodbye to a dear friend who will be sadly missed. You where my friend and a gifted one at that, and it is with a heavy heart that I say I was truly blessed to have known and connected with you, and you made so many people happy and I count myself as one of them. You will be sadly missed E and I know you are always with me .